The Prophet Of Mercy
Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) said:
"The upper hand (giver) is better than the lower one (receiver)". Muslim Kitab Zakat No. 124

Prophet Muhammad (saw) said, “ And begin (charity) with your dependants; and the upper hand is better than the lower hand.” [Muslim]

Abu Huraira narrated that the Prophet said: The best charity is that which is practiced by a wealthy person. And start giving first to your dependents. (Bukhari)

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